What come across your mind when this word appeared in front of you? A person, an incident or a love story? Love sealed for eternity in somebody life. An indefinitely friendship. A last long kind of memory. An unbreakable sensation... Do thing last forever. I doubt so when it come across friendship. Friend zone built up, it breaks sometime, it maintain till the end of your life the another way round. Different people own a definition of friendship. Some of you seem it as a beneficial tool to fix yourself into a better one, or as a ladder to climb higher, as a bridge to cross over a river, as a tower to see a more breathtaking view. Contrary, one' will take it as a promise or an honor. They planted their sincerity as part of the companionship. They put in their time to built up a robust and still foundation for the acquaintanceship. I hated people who invest a friendship and start to get interest every month like what bank did.
From the day you decide to go onto this ship together with he/she, do respect it as an important part of your life. Isn't something that you can take it and just throw it away like a Barbie doll when you don't want. As mentioned, treat it as though it's an affiance. You not need to give a sweet long sentence to promise this relationship, what you need to do is just show an action that you cherish it.
"Noting will stay in life forever."
I admitted that I am kind of people who like socializing. I can just smile and started a conversation with a stranger when I walk in college. Or I can just wave and say hi with you and I assumed that we are acquaintance. My definition of friend is as easy as what we written in an academic essay: " Friends are those who tapped you on shoulder when you're at the verge of life. Friend is the one who shine you a flash light when you're in a dark cave." But, friends come and leave, soundly. I want to make it stagnant but I can't.
"Can it last longer?"
I received an conditional offer from University of Bath to study a BcShonor of Architecture last few days. I thank God for His Iove towards me. He shone an effulgence to my life, like a star glimpsing in dark. Feeling appreciate at first few seconds, I felt upset later. This fresh stage of life will bring a brand new me. Being a freshman in university and even a country is not easy. The dilemmas I need to come across are out of my expectation. From a meet up after months with my bestie until a gathering just during special occasions such as fridn's wedding dinner, his 21th birthday celebration... I don't want thing to be like this. I knew this will happen. "Distance can prove how strong a friendship is, but it can also show how fragile it's." As a typical nerdy, I don't think I will spend a significant time to have a skype call with my friends or a long whatsapp conversation during study time. I will rather choose to sleep my head off in the fluffy bed or go for a hang out at the city beside. But this come with condition, if you're someone who is important in my life, yes, it's true that I will spend my time sitting down in front of the webcam, listening to your problems or feeling your happiness over there for hours...
"Thing might change when time pass"
I hope the bond between us is a disulphide bond but not van de waals force.
_szeyeeM
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